<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post4037818585773791947..comments</id><updated>2008-08-22T16:55:48.252+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Stranger in this Dunya: Solitude</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/feeds/4037818585773791947/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html'/><author><name>Umm Ibrahim</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01854841403985663983</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4329714329332133313</id><published>2008-08-22T16:55:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-22T16:55:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>It is very imortant to me to be alone and reflect,...</title><content type='html'>It is very imortant to me to be alone and reflect, or do stuff on my own.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/4329714329332133313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/4329714329332133313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219413300000#c4329714329332133313' title=''/><author><name>Aafke</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09208127027735552298</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-2753636392485748491</id><published>2008-08-20T22:49:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T22:49:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Wa alaikum salaam Itto,Jazakillahu khair... :) It ...</title><content type='html'>Wa alaikum salaam Itto,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Jazakillahu khair... :) It seems that maybe my commenting problems on myminaret are over, alhamdu Lillah.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It is sometimes difficult finding time to be alone, completely alne which explains why I get too many verrrry late nights!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/2753636392485748491'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/2753636392485748491'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219261740000#c2753636392485748491' title=''/><author><name>Umm Ibrahim</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01854841403985663983</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12924395561002243686'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-1450306270307371792</id><published>2008-08-20T17:44:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T17:44:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>salam alaikoum dearest sister,thank you so much fo...</title><content type='html'>salam alaikoum dearest sister,&lt;BR/&gt;thank you so much for the nice comments on my blog and for the thoughts about solitude... oh god, how much could I need it...me-time, time to think, be and to reflect... I love my mornings after fajr prayer when I am alone until the kids wake up...this is nearly the only me-time I have- which needs in fact a lot of power and patience to accept... &lt;BR/&gt;I wish you much power and blessings with your big family.&lt;BR/&gt;may Allah bless you! masalama.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/1450306270307371792'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/1450306270307371792'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219243440000#c1450306270307371792' title=''/><author><name>Itto</name><uri>www.itto.myminaret.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-902063453924994521</id><published>2008-08-20T15:19:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T15:19:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Assalaamu alaikum,Good to hear that others cherish...</title><content type='html'>Assalaamu alaikum,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Good to hear that others cherish their alone time rather lamenting their loneliness. :]&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Welcome to the blog sister 'H', nice to 'meet' you. :]&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;WM: no need for others to judge if your 'me time' is put to good use, it's a matter of self-satisfaction... if you're happy with how that time is spent, that's the important thing. ;)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/902063453924994521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/902063453924994521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219234740000#c902063453924994521' title=''/><author><name>Umm Ibrahim</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01854841403985663983</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12924395561002243686'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-8487014985848904272</id><published>2008-08-20T14:10:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T14:10:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>I prefer solitude to company and almost all my tim...</title><content type='html'>I prefer solitude to company and almost all my time is spent alone.  Since I'm something of a solitary creature, that suits me just fine.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;As for whether I turn that 'me' time to good account- that is for others to judge :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/8487014985848904272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/8487014985848904272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219230600000#c8487014985848904272' title=''/><author><name>WM</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4095314102572963526</id><published>2008-08-20T12:16:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T12:16:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Assalaamu Alaikum,I definitely need my own time. N...</title><content type='html'>Assalaamu Alaikum,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I definitely need my own time. No matter how tired I am in the evening I usually won't go to bed before I have cooled down a little bit. &lt;BR/&gt;On the other hand I think also my job and my school as my own time and I'm joking sometimes that I'm going to work to rest!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;wassalaam Maryam from Finland</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/4095314102572963526'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/4095314102572963526'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219223760000#c4095314102572963526' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-8884722683488743093</id><published>2008-08-20T08:54:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T08:54:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>I know a little something about alone time and boy...</title><content type='html'>I know a little something about alone time and boy do I  look forward to it every night masha Allah. My alone time is usualy late at night once everyone is sleep(including my husband) . My alone time consist of me doing the following reading quran,night prayer, washing dishes and of course bloging.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/8884722683488743093'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/8884722683488743093'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219211640000#c8884722683488743093' title=''/><author><name>Umm Aslam</name><uri>http://lifeofummaslam.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4151574609525585112</id><published>2008-08-20T08:21:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T08:21:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>Assalamu Aleykum Dear Beloved Sister,I have come a...</title><content type='html'>Assalamu Aleykum Dear Beloved Sister,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I have come across your blog and I just love it. the past few times I meant to leave some comments but ended up running out of time (busy-ness). Alahmdulilah, yet again you posted something that I think of most of the time...&lt;BR/&gt;so where should I start? the 5-min meals which I usually call "lazy-meals" even though that is almost everything I ever do. Or what one can do in any give 5-min period. What's name got to do with it?! Yea, tell me about it...!&lt;BR/&gt;and my solitude is something I always cherish. I like silence, since it is peace...to be one with nature...be, yet be in unison with our inner soul that can only show itself when at peace...&lt;BR/&gt;a way to leave a channel open, a way to communicate with the oneself....hmmmmm. it never ends, the answer since the more patiently we dig in, the more there is to reflect upon...(infinite is Allah's wonders...."If you were to count Allah's favors, you will not be able to count." Qur'an.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Your sister in Faith,&lt;BR/&gt;H.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/4151574609525585112'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/4151574609525585112'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219209660000#c4151574609525585112' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-6646745332956947516</id><published>2008-08-20T08:11:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-20T08:11:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm an introvert person and so as usual, I like so...</title><content type='html'>I'm an introvert person and so as usual, I like solitude. I hate it when there are so much noises around ( I don't have any kids yet, and so i have got a peaceful yet boring and sad life now). I like to sit and dream, when I'm alone. when in India, I used to go to the farm or the riverbank by my house in the evenings and spent a lot of time there with my own thoughts. That was the best moments of solitude i ever had in my life.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/6646745332956947516'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/6646745332956947516'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219209060000#c6646745332956947516' title=''/><author><name>Najeeba</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05039340593733276295</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-7059906227291602628</id><published>2008-08-19T23:53:00.000+03:00</published><updated>2008-08-19T23:53:00.000+03:00</updated><title type='text'>i'm a very solitary soul by nature and love being ...</title><content type='html'>i'm a very solitary soul by nature and love being alone and those moments of still calm when you can spend time reflecting..introspection is an important tool for growing as a human, and I think we underestimate sometimes the importace of being alone...blocking out all the noise around us and just....thinking</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/7059906227291602628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/4037818585773791947/comments/default/7059906227291602628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html?showComment=1219179180000#c7059906227291602628' title=''/><author><name>seekingtaqwa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14610424415557632540</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://strangerinthisdunya.blogspot.com/2008/08/solitude.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204219892383731772.post-4037818585773791947' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9204219892383731772/posts/default/4037818585773791947' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>